Live the life you're destined to live!



"Most people live their entire lives with interior worlds that remain unknown. That is a tragedy. "

Six Starting Blocks In Finding The Person You're Destined To Be

Negative Core Beliefs (More...)

Our struggle is against our own and other’s limitations. We are imprisoned in a steel cage with words like: “you are not OK – you’re stupid – what’s wrong with you” when we’re young. When looking for the key to our cage later in life, we often can’t find it. The key is: The realization that the cage never existed! Click on the heading for more info.

Know your enemies (More...)

You’re not alone… your enemies are continually trying to make your life as difficult as possible. There are sharks lurking in the shallow waters (loan sharks and internet sharks just to mention two), emotional or energy vampires waiting in the dark (toxic people, narcissists and more). Click on the heading for more info.

Find friends (More...)

You’re not alone… you do have allies waiting to act on your call for help. Your mind should be your best friend. There are also friends and supportive communities that you can enlist in your war against the negative forces around you. Click on the heading for more info.

Find your destiny (More...)

Find MEANING in your life. It gives you purpose and sets the compass on how you want to live your life. Meaning in your life will keep you from spending the rest of your life wandering aimlessly through life with no direction, no focus, and no purpose. Click on the heading for more info.

The Unseen Realm (More...)

Testimonial evidence about the Unseen Realm is to be found everywhere. Just looking at the large number of people belonging to the sheer number of religions around the world should be proof enough. Billions of people believe in the unseen realm and many testified of encounters with the spiritual world. Click on the heading for more...

Become a child again

Going back looking at the world through the eyes of a child. Going back to being straightforward. Returning to the point where you once trusted the world and all inhabitants thereof. Re-discovering humility. Re-exploring the sense of wonder.

Practical Tips To Demolish Anxiety Or Panic Attacks

Understanding the underlying reasons for anxiety and fear is essential for successfully applying these tips...

10 Second Solution

Inhale for 2 counts, exhale for 4 counts and drop your shoulders! - “There is nothing impossible with God. All the impossibility is with us when we measure God by the limitations of our unbelief.” - Smith Wigglesworth

The 60 Second Solution

Find your quiet place and overcome anxiety - "The best remedy for those who are afraid, lonely or unhappy is to go outside, somewhere where they can be quiet, alone with the heavens, nature and God. Because only then does one feel that all is as it should be." - Anne Frank

The 30 Minutes Solution

Take a walk - "Do activities you're passionate about - which make your heart and soul feel perky - including things like working out, cooking, painting, writing, yoga, hiking, walking, swimming, being in nature, being around art, or reading inspiring books." - Karen Salmansohn

On Doubt

“The blood of Jesus Christ and His mighty name are an antidote to all the subtle seeds of unbelief that Satan would sow in your minds.”

On the Bigness of God

“There is nothing small about our God, and when we understand God, we will find out that there ought not to be anything small about us. We must have an enlargement of our conception of God, then we will know that we have come to a place where all things are possible, for our God is an omnipotent God for impossible positions.”

On the Renewing of Our Minds

“God wants to purify our minds until we can bear all things, believe all things, hope all things and endure all things. God dwells in you, but you cannot have this divine power until you live and walk in the Holy Ghost, until the power of the new life is greater than the old life.”

On an Eternal Perspective

“Never listen to human plans. God can work mightily when you persist in believing Him in spite of discouragement from the human standpoint ... I am moved by what I believe. I know this: no man looks at the circumstances if he believes.”


“Start by doing what's necessary; then do what's possible; and suddenly you are doing the impossible.” - Francis of Assisi
My interest in Anxiety comes from my intense interest in people seeking to live a more meaningful purpose-driven life. Over the last 30 years, I’ve read and studied to find answers on why “most men lead lives of quiet desperation and go to the grave with the song still in them” – as Henry David Thoreau said in his book, Civil Disobedience and Other Essays. Always thinking that I was perhaps not the right person for the job; or somebody else would give a better answer; or that I am not good enough; or that I would not be able to accomplish it; or that I am not destined to be the person I am dreaming of becoming, I was always in the background and the “quiet one”. How I hated it if somebody said in a conversation: “He’s always this quiet” or “Say something”. Looking back I only later realized that I was a social anxiety sufferer and that I lost so many golden opportunities to live the life I always dreamt of – because I was afraid. Most of my life I have looked for something to make my life more meaningful, to find my purpose in life. I have found that answer and you know what – it was always within my grasp, but I never recognized it as such. It is so simple and easy and doesn’t cost you an arm and leg. I’ve spent so much money chasing promise after promise that I totally forgot that life should be beautiful and exciting. With this Website, I want to take your hand and show you that the person you dream of, is you; that you are worth much more that you could ever think; that you can be happy and enjoy life without anxiety. I will show you that you are not alone and that you are destined for a life of abundance.
With this Website, I want to take your hand and show you that the person you dream of, is you; that you are worth much more that you could ever think; that you can be happy and enjoy life without anxiety. I will show you that you are not alone and that you are destined for a life of abundance.


What Others Are Saying...
So many of the topics covered are things that I haven't consciously thought about, but are beliefs I have had for a long time. It was great to actually read these things and feel validated, that I'm not the only with these problems. Another great thing about reading this book is that I was truly inspired for the first time in a long time.


Not only did it help me learn about myself, but it helped me get motivated and ready to change. As a Christian, this eBook is great because it uses spiritual basis to help the reader overcome anxiety. I would recommend this to anyone fighting with social anxiety, even if you think it's hopeless!


It sounds weird but what you have written really just rings true to me. I love the way you used real-life examples, religion, and science all together to explain social anxiety.



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My Anxiety Demolished

I only found out very late in life how to deal with Social Anxiety...

As a manager for a construction company, I often felt frustrated when overlooked for promotion. With my university degree, I landed a senior position in the company. Whenever it was my turn to speak in meetings my voice was shaking, my heartbeat was spiking and I often got agitated.

My social anxiety was keeping me from really becoming part of a wonderful (I didn't think that back then) group of people. I was often jealous that my subordinates were more at ease at social functions than me.

My frustration got the better of me and I resigned to find a job where I didn't have to work in a large team. My income dropped but also my frustration - for a while. I often felt sad, feeling that I was sitting on the sidelines with life itself passing by. I read many self-help books, attended courses and classes to find meaning for my life and to improve my quality of life, but there was never a permanent change.

Then life dealt me another bad hand...

I was forced into early retirement. I did not provide enough for retirement and could not find a job again. I used some of my pension money to purchase a franchise, but it turned out to be a scam. The next franchise didn't work out either.

Then something changed again...

All of a sudden the world was a wonderful, albeit not easy, place full of opportunities!

To share this with you, I've just written an eBook called "Starting Blocks - From Bloodsucking Emotional Vampires To Help From The Unseen Realm" which is a simple and easy 2-step way to start overcoming social anxiety.

With the eBook STARTING BLOCKS, you are challenged to re-look at your pre-conceptions regarding social anxiety.